Bedtimes / 30 Nov 2015 / by James
Top tips for happy bedtimes
As the clocks go back for winter and it starts to get dark before youâ€˜ve even started making dinner, it can mean pre-bedtime schedules need a bit of a rethink. No more kicking a ball around in the garden after tea, or bouncing on the trampoline in your pyjamas before bed!
A bedtime routine is important at any time of the year â€“ it gives children structure to their world, and helps ensure they get the sleep they need to make the most of every day. For younger children and toddlers bedtime can be a bit of a battleground â€“ there are so many better things to do! For older children, it can be hard for them to wind down after a busy day, which can mean a lack of quality sleep and a broken night for everyone.
Weâ€™ve written before about how much sleep children need, and this usually defines what time you set for bedtime. Itâ€™s important to maintain the bedtime routine, because sleep has been proven to be hugely important to a childâ€™s growth and development, and itâ€™s really important for you too. If your children are sleeping peacefully through the night, chances are youâ€™ll be more rested and happier too!
Most pre-school children go to bed about 7pm on a school night, and maybe a little bit later at weekends, but every family is different and you need to choose a time that works for you. Older siblings often go to bed a little later than younger ones, and this can be a good way of making sure each child gets some quality time with you or your partner before they go to bed.
A period of wind-down before bed can be a really useful aid for restful sleep, putting children in a more relaxed state of mind that will help them fall asleep more quickly, and get a better quality of sleep. Make sure the hour before bed is â€œquiet timeâ€, where the TV and video games are turned off, and any activities are designed to help your child relax. Lots of parents include soft lighting, a bath and warm pyjamas in this phase, then have a cuddle and a story before teeth and toilet and a final story when theyâ€™re tucked up in bed.
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